May
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Posted (angel) in Intimate Life on May-22-2007

As women today, it’s all too easy to let our sensuality wane. After all, we have demanding careers, kids who need our love and attention, and a million errands to run and chores to do. The intimate relationships we have with our husbands or boyfriends often take a backseat to the activities that make up our life. It doesn’t take much, though, to rediscover our sensuality and reignite our passion - some sizzling hot lingerie will do the trick almost every time.

Spice up your love life can start with wearing hot sexy lingerie every day. Yes, everyday. Your co-workers don’t need to know that you’re wearing a sexy bra and panty set under your business suit, or that you’re wearing stockings and garters instead of pantyhose. Your husband doesn’t even have to know. The important thing is that you’ll know, and that you’ll carry an awareness of your sensuality with you throughout the day.

You might often find that you are so short of time, but time is something that everyone is short of, that is what makes the difference if YOU are pampering yourself and your partner/husband/boyfriend/lover with hot sexy lingerie underneath!

There’s no denying that men are visual creatures, and some sexy lingerie will go a long way to rekindle the passion you share. Surprise him by “slipping into something more comfortable” and coming out in a bustier, corset, baby doll, or camisole. You never know - he may have a few ideas of his own and be wearing men’s sexy underwear, have rose petals sprinkled on the bed, or have flavored massage oil on the nightstand.

Every woman knows how hard it is to switch roles at a moment’s notice. It’s difficult to fix dinner, get the kids bathed and put to bed, and then - snap - turn into a seductress. Try too hard, and you’ll either give up or start resenting your mate.

One of the things that makes it easier to kindle the passion that you and your husband share is to regularly indulge your sensuality. That might mean carving out some alone time to go on a walk by yourself, to take a bubble bath, or to have a regular manicure and pedicure.

I often find that women might ignore properly taking care of themselves and allow themselves to look sloppy and unattractive. Then they wonder why their men would gradually lose interest in them. Yes, I agree that we women shouldn’t let men to judge ourselves as to who we are just because what we wear or how many pounds we have or what cup size we have, but do we not want to look beautiful and sexy just for OURSELVES?

There is no ugly woman, only lazy woman - so my mother always says to me. If we workout to get fit, that’s for ourselves to have a more attractive figure as well as healthier body, if we wear proper make-up instead of exposing our exhausted nude face, that’s for ourselves to feel good and pretty for OURSELVES, not just for men who might or might not look at us. Then you will find that men DO look at us and become attracted to us more easily.

I can’t say how much hot sexy lingerie can do the trick when you were to spice up your intimate life. Set him on fire just by wearing sexy lingerie, instead of sloppy pj. Try wearing naughty costumes, lit some scented candles and be very playful when you approach him. Use your dazzling eyes and soft touch to sink him with you in the ocean of love and foreplay. You will appreciate the little piece of nicely designed outfit after all!
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May
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Posted (angel) in Intimate Life on May-20-2007

1d_2.jpgThe perfect kiss will help lock you in with the man or woman of your dreams and will put you down in their memory banks forever!

But how do you achieve the perfect kiss? Each person has different feelings about the way they like to be kissed. A general rule for the first kiss is to be soft and brush their lips gently, without thrusting your tongue into your partner’s mouth as if you were playing tonsil hockey.

Once you are in a relationship, go outside your comfort zone and ask your partner what they think would be the perfect kiss. For many women, and men as well, it’s important to set the mood for the perfect kiss.

While rushing your loved one into a heated kiss when you first walk in the door after work can be very stimulating and arousing, using this method every time may cause your partner to withdraw.

Here are a few tips to help you:

First, you need to set the mood. Whether that means taking your arms, wrapping them around your partner and gazing into their eyes for even a brief time, putting on music that you both love and cuddling on the couch or dancing in the living room, just do it.

Once the mood is set, gently take your partner’s face into your hands, using one of them to gently run your fingers through their hair lovingly, then softly kiss the surface of their lips, not seeking anything deeper.

As soon as you have reached that moment, gently pull away to gaze into your partner’s eyes again for a brief moment before you venture to the lips again.

Next, gently rest your lips again on your partner’s, slowly taking them between yours in a soft sucking motion. Do this for a short time before you proceed to the next step.

Remember, whatever you do, don’t just thrust your tongue into your partner’s mouth upon first touch. Once you have achieved a massaging of their lips for a few minutes, gently glide your tongue into your partner’s mouth, letting it play with their tongue as if the two were dancing together.

Every so often (but not overdoing it), thrust your tongue deep into your partner’s mouth and then gently pull away to again mingle with their tongue. This move can be a very sexy and intoxicating move when used correctly and during the right moment in the kiss.

Don’t keep your tongue in your partner’s mouth for the entire time. Keep changing positions in the way you hold them, caressing your partner’s backside without making it a sexual overture and moving back and forth from dancing with their tongue to massaging their lips.

Caress your partner’s hair again; cradle them in your arms while you are gazing into your partner’s eyes, and then begin the kiss again. Once you get the hang of this, ask your partner what they like and don’t like again. Kissing is an art and each individual person has different preferences.